Saturday, December 3, 2016

Life Lessons from cycling & Khushi's moment of triumph

I posted this on 3rd October 2014 - Khushi rode up with me on the Parsik Hill.

Khushi's maiden Parsik hill ride done today.. Along with a full circuit of PBR.
While guiding her up the hill and back.. And then riding along the PBR in great weather ... I realised that Cycling in many ways is how life is ....
So here are some Life's lessons from cycling ( Feel free to add more ) : 
  1. Being in top gear won't ensure success always... Its is all about changing gears at the right time.
  2. If the going seems easy and you are going too fast without much effort, caution !! you maybe going downhill.
  3. If it's tough and you seem to be going slow .. Have patience, you will surely be rewarded with the feeling of 'being on top' and thereafter the pleasure and thrill of a slope with wind across your face. Enjoy !!
  4. Lesser the 'baggage' you carry, more effortless your ride is likely to be. 
  5. Steady consistent speed is what gives you control and balance ... Neither very high speeds nor very low speeds. 
  6. On rough roads, it makes sense to hold the handlebar tight and steer your way as desired.
  7. If all the wheels and gears are not in harmony and if any one of them creaks... The ride will be rough. Have balance between wheels of work, life and relationships. Spend time in regularly oiling each of them
  8. Like in cycling, in life too... one has to pedal continuously. You stop and you fall.
  9. Turn too sharply and you fall. Negotiate the changes with patience.

It’s not Telecom, it’s the great Indian Entertainment Revolution


It’s not Telecom, it’s the great Indian Entertainment Revolution


I have lived in this beautiful city of Vadodara for over a year and I know that nine nights of Navratri in Vadodara are quite magical. I promised to take my girls to the city during the festival this year.

So no sooner did the chance present itself, I found myself driving on the highway towards Vadodara on NH-48. We started the journey road at 5am on Saturday from our residence in Navi Mumbai to be able to beat the traffic within Mumbai. The plan was to reach Surat by 9.30 odd and Vadodara in time for Lunch. The girls were still somnolent, tired from the restless previous night. I have a pair of 8 year old twins and a 14yr old teenager – all girls and they had been excitedly packing stuff for the trip late until midnight.
The 'Revolutionaries'

I exited the city and hit the highway well before sunrise. My teenager kept me company, chatting up with me at times and playing choicest of music from her phone– both her choice & mine (mostly mine… since I skipped the songs using steering controls when I didn’t like what was playing). All this while the twins slept peacefully.

The twins got up as it suited them by about 7 am and after chatty conversations… they picked up my phone. They realized that they had little choice over the music with me and their elder sister around so this seemed like a cozy compromise.

Very soon, I realized that they were not playing games as they usually did - they were actually watching a movie. They were watching Tanu Weds Manu Returns on the phone and were listening to it on their earphones (I have a splitter which lets them share both their earphones). But wait I didn’t have the movie on my phone. They had actually figured it out and were actually streaming the movie from one of the Video on Demand applications I had on my phone. I was relieved that they were busy.

This set me thinking. My teenage daughter was all along streaming music from her phone to my car music system and we were enjoying a mélange of songs. Most of these songs were not stored on the phone which actually removed the restriction on the number of songs we ‘carried’. We were literally carrying millions of songs.

And now coming to the back seat, the twins were enjoying the movie. They got a movie of their choice (in my house, movies which have a strong female protagonists are popular – 3 girls you see!) and were merrily enjoying it from the thousands of movies that VOD app had.
I have undertaken road trips in the distant past and mostly that meant packing our favorite cassettes or CDs or more recently buying and loading up songs on the ipod which was connected through the Aux mode on the car’s systems.  None of that. Today’s kids don’t have to ‘stock up’ on their favorite music for the trip. This was a departure from the past, when for me and my sister packing things for a trip meant collecting cassettes/CDs.  Today entertainment was available on tap. All of this was enabled by the high speed 3G data & 4G data networks of the modern day.

Great roads and Kishore Kumar playing on the car audio helped the mind. What if everyone gets a smartphone and gets connected to the high speed information highway. The clean and smooth NH-48 in a rhetoric sense now seemed like an information superhighway - high speed, obstacle free.
The Wonderful Highway to Vadodara

So here we were listening to songs which were chosen from amongst a million options, the twins were seeing a movie which they has chosen from amongst the thousands on the portal.. and we didn’t ‘possess’ any of these. What if this possibility were to replicate in every handheld device and in every household.

It was only last month that I had ordered the movie ‘Sultan’ from the comfort of my home and was watching it on my Apple TV when it struck me that I haven’t visited a multiplex in a long time. I prefer to watch it at home with no set timing. I also don’t watch the movie in one single sitting. I watch it over 2 or 3 days. The movie did very brisk business of over Rs300 crores in India. However when I look at the numbers in detail, I realize that just about 30Mn people have seen the movie in the theatres. Again, it was also a Salman Khan movie ‘Prem Ratan Dhan  Paayo’ which had the highest number of people watching it when it was telecast. The world television premiere of ‘Prem Ratan Dhan Payo’ on Star Gold and Star Gold HD was offered on Valentine’s Day. The movie delivered record TRPS and at closest estimate, it was seen by 70Mn people. So now, in a country of 1.3bn people and with a very established movie production business, the highest reach a movie could garner is no more than 100Mn… and that is if I take the best of both – people viewing in theatres and people watching on TV.

India produces over 2000 movies in a year and the movie business is nearly 3bn$.So if only 10-12% of this self-confessed movie crazy country watches a movie… where are the rest. Don’t they have the need for entertainment?

To put it in perspective, it needs to be understood that India has just about 8000 theatres (screens) for the 2000 odd movies that we produce. Compare that to China’s 25000+ for less than 1000 movies and US’s 40000+ screens for Hollywood movies and you get a sense of deprivation. So it’s not just the cost of watching a movie at the closest cinema… there just aren’t enough screens. And if you think that you don’t get tickets to a multiplex for the weekend…remember- it just gets worse outside the large cities.

New screens are going up at an excruciatingly slow pace given the costs involved (mainly real estate) and this presents a huge opportunity to the producers to showcase their movies on the ubiquitous screen – the smartphone screen. This is another opportunity for leap-frogging. What if the number of people who watch a movie now goes up from 100Mn to just 200Mn - assisted by distribution on a smartphone screen. And this 100Mn is for popular cinema. The numbers are much lesser for niche cinema, so much so that a regional language movie or a special interest/ niche cinema movie would not even find screens for a theatrical release. They would just be squeezed out of the theatres by big banners. Opportunities to showcase such cinema are immense on the smartphone screen. You reach just the audience who likes such cinema and could be spread in any corner of the country. All this without worrying about filling up cinema halls & hence running the risk of your movie being pulled down by the theatre owner.
Entertainment on the go

And this is not just about movies alone. The smartphone screen has been giving serious competition to other popular screen ‘the television’.
The second presidential debate between Clinton and Trump garnered a whopping 63 million TV viewers but this number dwarfs in comparison to the 124 million views on YouTube, 3.2million viewers on Twitter’s livestream and Facebook Live’s 7.4mn viewers (in partnership with ABC News). So 63Mn on television and twice that number on the smart screen. If this is a sign of times to come… look where we are heading.
The convenience of the smartphone screen is unparalleled. It’s your anywhere, anytime screen and if your family is watching the soaps, you can watch that cricket match. Why! HotStar has been claiming 100 Mn viewership for the IPL during the previous season.
It’s the same for Television. India has ~300mn households of which ~ 175mn are cable households (just over 50%) but Indians have almost 1bn mobile connections. Urban penetration stands on TV homes is at 83%, while rural is as low as 40%, but the divide is not so stark when it comes to mobile phones. What if Kapil Sharma were to reach so many people or households? What if Pro-Kabaddi League reaches the nooks and crannies of rural India? It would change the landscape media, sports and entertainment in the country for good. Everyone in the game - advertisers, broadcasters, producers and consumers tend to gain by going on the smartphone screens and if you are not present on the digital distribution channels you’ll be trampled over.
The Group
While I was in Vadodara, we went to the absolutely fabulous venues for Garba at Navlakhi grounds and the UWB (United Way of Baroda). The atmosphere there was electric. People of all ages in their best traditional costumes were swaying to the beats of the Garba. The more enterprising of them were dancing, the slightly less enterprising were watching from the sidelines but what was also intriguing was that I could see a lot of people going live through their Facebook accounts to share the awesome energy in the grounds. Almost every other person who I thought was shooting a video or clicking a picture was actually going ‘live’ to share the experience with their friends and family – real time.
At Vadodara Navratri Festival, Navlakhi Grounds



Where does all of this bring me to? Movies and Music streaming through the smartphone, Watching Live TV on the smartphone, real time video sharing of precious moments with friends and family again through the smartphone. Not that we don’t know the power of bringing all these things in the hands of the a billion consumers, it’s a revolution of sorts.
We have had data networks on our phones for a long time and we don’t need the 4G speeds or even the 3G speeds to update our Facebook Status or do an e-commerce transaction. The high speeds networks really make a difference when there is video involved. The smooth video rendition makes the experience worthwhile, not unlike the ‘buffering’ experience of the past.
So when I or my daughters get the power to carry millions of songs, thousands of movies, hundreds of TV channels and ability to relay precious moments to a dozen friends live from the palms of our hands, we know we have it all!!
And then when I think that government has auctioned spectrum to telecom companies, they haven’t really fuelled another telecom revolution, they have unwittingly propelled an Entertainment Revolution. Because that’s what this is! Do they know it yet though?

An open letter to PM Sh. Narendra Modi in the wake of DeMonitisation

An open letter to PM Sh. Narendra Modi



Sub: My tryst without currency
Dear Sir,
I was unable to see your televised address on 8th November at 8pm and only heard about the shock news that the currency notes of Rs 500 & Rs 1000 would no more be legal tender starting a few hours from then. The news had indeed taken me and my colleagues, who were still in office, by surprise.
About me - I am no economist not even an arm chair variety. I am also not a politician nor am I affiliated with any political party. I just like to keep myself informed of the happenings around me and sometimes converse & comment on the current affairs only on merits and not along party lines. I am a modest urban middle class tax paying citizen who yearns to grow up the ladder by hard work and determination.

We tried to find more and realized that we could deposit the money in the bank by 30th Dec and/ or exchange the currency notes also till then.

A quick mental scan of the situation as it lay before me suggested that all was under control. I had been getting my salary in the bank, most of my spends are through credit cards and debit cards, I pay for taxi rides through mobile wallets. I have invested in an additional apartment and the tenant transfers money to the bank (post deducting TDS I may add), and I pay municipal taxes, electricity bills etc online. I shopped for weekly (or in some cases monthly) grocery provisions from the nearby department store using the cards. Hence I seemed sorted for most of my transactions. But yes, I needed cash to pay the shopkeepers near my house for sundry emergency provisions like bread, veggies, ice creams & chips etc for my daughters and similar stuff.

Sir, I realized that while I did not go through any significant inconvenience, the maid who visited our house had been feeling the crunch. I tried to help in my own way by simply opening up the kitchen and refrigerator to her. We asked her to pick up whatever provisions she wanted and she picked up some rice, some veggies, a bar of soap and some random stuff, cost of which was insignificant to me, but a convenience which was significant for her. Most of the neighbors I know did very well to support people who needed help. One of my building inhabitants who I heard runs a small factory made a list of provisions his workers wanted, purchased it from a department store paying by card and handed the stuff over to his workers. One of them walked to the bank to help them open a bank account and other such stuff. The shops near our society were happily accepting 500 & 1000 Re notes, a few quickly started accepting cards for small values also (something they were reluctant to do, only a few days back), signed up for mobile wallets or as a last resort, started offering credit to regular patrons.

In all of this, a visit to my local barber summed up the ‘feelings’ of the common man (will refrain from saying aam aadmi). I had forgotten that I had only Rs 60 apart from the now defunct notes of Rs 500 & Rs 100. He told me ‘Sir, aap pehli baar nahin aa rahe baal katwane, aap nischint rahiye. Aaj jab desh mein accha kaam ho raha hai toh hone do. Aap paise agli baar de dena”. This touched a chord somewhere.

Of course I saw that patronage to restaurants had been lesser than normal. Home deliveries from restaurants had virtually stopped, hawkers did lesser business than usual as there was no cash to receive or give. In the middle of all this, we went to this restaurant where we as a group of friends met for dinner and had to asked the captain to swipe the card 7 times to split the bill. My inconvenience was limited to spending more time to pay by card whereas in normal cases, one person would pay by card and rest everyone would pay his share in cash.

While I have stood in the queue for withdrawing money from the ATM and to deposit old currency notes in my account, you could still accuse me of being an elitist urban citizen not in touch with rural reality. True, I would readily agree as I am not aware of the problems of farmers and other rural folks first hand. Though I hear that while the discomfort has been high, the hopes for a better future are even higher.

Sir, I suspect that the government machinery was not completely geared up for a handling a transformation of this magnitude and has been faltering. At the same time I am happy that this step is being taken and I am happier that the government is reviewing and monitoring the situation so closely that course corrections are being done daily to ease the inconvenience to citizens. Changing limits of withdrawals, accommodating people having marriages in the family, not charging at toll booths and so many other changes are being done. It’s quite a delight to note that governments can be so efficient in observing issues, listening to citizens, taking quick decisions and taking actions. I haven’t seen that in a while.

Sir, there is hope. There are already talks of loan being eased up since the banks are flush with funds and other such economic benefits. However, to me the benefits accruing are not so much economic as are behavioral. Tomorrow if I am confronted with a situation where a government officer asks me for a bribe, I will not pay up. I will not pay up because I know this is not acceptable, this is not the norm, the higher authorities will not tolerate it and hence action will be taken again against him. And I will be emboldened to say that, knowing that the Prime Minister of the country is against the practice. Sadly, with all the scams of the past, I wasn’t sure if I had the support from the ‘higher ups’ – after all, if all the netas and ministers took bribes, I would fear victimization if i was to speak up. And despite one not liking it, one would most likely play along – reluctantly.

My father had been a government official and we had several friends and relatives from several ranks junior to him (though not from the same organization) who had enjoyed lifestyles several notches above what we enjoyed with our modest middle class existence. My parents explained this dichotomy by saying that it’s because we are honest people. I never understood it then, however its only when I grew up is when I realized the meaning of ‘upar ki kamai’ and the perks that came with it. By then ‘honesty’ was a virtue that was deeply ingrained in me – and rightly so. Of course, I am not unique, I am sure most of our countrymen have had similar experiences and upbringing. And still most of us at some time, have frustratingly paid bribes.

Sir, human beings are not born dishonest, its only when you see the dishonest easily get away with the spoils, only when you challenge the boundaries of law and derive thrill out of it, only when you are not handed over a stern punishment the first time you cross the line, that you would be tempted to stray fearlessly beyond the boundaries of law. And this is exactly what is happening currently. Somewhere this fear has vanished and that’s why you see lots of people right from a traffic policemen to a high ranking babu openly seeking bribes. The biggest change that I hope to see is in this behavior.

Sir, for once we are seeing the advantage of being honest, for once honesty as a virtue is not making me feel deprived. I’ve heard you rightfully use the phrase ‘Imandaari ka Utsav’ where honest tax payers celebrate and the evaders have sleepless nights. For far too long, we have seen dishonest people enjoying the fruits of their dishonesty. Its time, not just to snatch their ‘fruits’, but also punish them for what they are – dishonest bribe takers and dishonest tax evaders.

Sir, people are bearing with this temporary inconvenience with a hope that things will change hereon. However if things don’t change and a government official demands a bribe, if prices rise and inflation doesn’t stay in control or if people don’t see a tangible difference in their lives after this ‘kadak chai’ that you have served, then peoples anger would know no bounds. Honest people will feel let down and the dishonest will rejoice. And then no PM will even attempt a renaissance of this nature in a country of this size. We can’t let that happen.

Sir, please don’t get distracted by the people who tell you that similar such demonetization experiments have failed in some other countries. All you need to tell these people is that most of those countries like Russia, Myanmar, North Korea etc had taken to the demonetization exercise with their people showing deep resentment and hostility unlike here in India. Here as you can see, the move is being welcomed and cheered by almost everyone. Sir, don’t lose focus when they tell yell at you in the parliament or outside. Remember, the industry captains, the celebrities, most foreign media and most importantly the public in general has hailed your move.

Finally sir,  if Chanakya were to see what’s happening in this country he would easily relate – “when there is appreciation by the intellectuals, when there is upheaval in the enemy camp, when there is unrest amongst the traitors, then you know that the king is of good character & high morals and that the nation is on the path to progress.”

This is our moment and we ought to seize it, this is India’s moment of truth and this is your – our Prime Ministers’ Blue Ocean Strategy for transformation and transition. We have to make it work, we WILL make it work.

All the best sir, I stand by you. My family stands by you!

Best wishes,


Sandeep Bangia

Thursday, August 1, 2013

Handling an Irate Customer

This article has been written from my experience as a Sales Manager handling customer complaints. The article also draws extracts from various research findings available on the internet.
This was published in the Business Standard - The Strategist dt 21st July 1998.


Everybody has faced him, CEO of the company to the junior-most employee in an organisation. Nobody wants him that way. But then no one can possibly wish him away. Meet him now- An irate Customer.
Well think of it, you as a part of an organisation, irrespective of your field of work must have had this experience of coming across an irate customer - A customer who is complaining - Complaining because he is dissatisfied with your product, program or service, delays in delivery, unfulfilled warranty obligations, poor repair work, incompetent or discourteous employees, billing errors, deceptive advertising , just about anything(or even nothing) . Your service delivery has failed to reach the expectation he had, when he decided to opt for it, thus causing dissonance. He is also calling you up to tell you about it and that he banks on you, the person whom he is speaking to, to set things right.
Consider the following findings from "Consumer Complaint Handling in America," a study by Technical Assistance Research Programs, Inc. (TARP):
¨ About 50 percent of the time, customers who have a problem with a product or service are not likely to tell the company about it.
¨ Nine out of ten of these "silent critics" will probably take their future business to a competitor.
¨ Even when a customer does complain, one out of every two will not be thoroughly satisfied with the company’s efforts to solve the problem.
¨ Dissatisfied customers typically tell between seven to nine other people when they have had an unsatisfactory experience with a company.
¨ Negative information has twice the impact of positive information on purchasing decisions.
¨ Word-of-mouth is one of the most important factors influencing a customer’s decision to buy from a company.
¨ Customers who have had a problem that got resolved satisfactorily tend to be more loyal and supportive than those who do not experience any problem at all.
Thus the fact that the customer is calling you up in anticipation is in itself a victory considering that he could have gone for the other two options open to him :
Private Response - Vowing not to deal again and discouraging others by word of mouth.
Third party response - Litigation or redressal through Consumer forums.
So all this just goes on tell us that complaints are one of the most important forms of communication between a business and its customers and constructive responses to complaints can help retain customers who would otherwise be lost.
Thus for every organisation the foundation of customer goodwill is the existence, promotion and practice of a sound customer relations policy. The policy should encourage customers to communicate their concerns and demonstrate the commitment to their satisfaction. The policy should spell out how, when, where and by whom complaints or questions are handled..
The complaint handling system is structured from the customer relations policy and must operate simply, effectively and quickly. The following procedures are essential:
Screening and Logging - The date the problem occurred, a description of the problem, and any other pertinent information should be formally recorded. It has been observed that the customers’ first call to your organisation to inform about his dis-satisfaction is the single most important factor in determining his response to your shortcoming. And again it is found that it is this very contact point in the organisation that’s lacking and needs to be well oiled.
Telephone call from an irate customer, when it is taken by anyone, whether it’s a top level CEO or a trainee, needs to be addressed using what is called the EAR method.
Empathize with the caller. Try to understand how the person is feeling. Listen uninterrupted. Let the caller get everything out of him. When you listen, don’t try to apply logic to the situation. Many people are beyond logic when they are angry. Avoid argument and criticism.
Apologize and acknowledge the problem. You don’t have to agree with the caller, but express regret that there is a problem. Let the customer know that his complaint is receiving attention. paraphrase the caller’s comments, and ask questions if you do not understand the information being presented to you. Restate the problem as you understand it.
Accept Responsibility. Make sure something is done. Take it upon yourself to DO something. Many times, that’s all that people want: the reassurance that something will be done. People want to be helped. They want to know that you care. Use these phrases to get that sentiment across: "How can I help you?" "What can I do for you?" "I’ll make sure this message/information gets to the right person."
The acceptance of responsibility may be as simple as forwarding the call to the appropriate individual or sending the caller more information.
Remember not to blame anyone — the caller, yourself, or someone on your staff — even if you know who is to blame for a problem. This information should not be shared with the caller.
And in your responses, avoid these forbidden phrases:
"I don’t know." It sounds as if you’re closing the door on the caller or that you’re not sure what’s going on in your own office.
Better to say: "That’s a good question. Let me check and find out."
"We can’t do that." This sentence is extremely negative. Be positive. Try this: "That’s a tough one. Let’s see what we can do."
" You’ll have to..." seems to put the pressure back on the caller. Try instead: "Here’s how we can help you."
"No," when it begins any sentence. It sounds as though you’re not willing to help.
"We aren’t able to do that, but we can...."(Because there’s always something you can do.)
Investigating - In addition to information from the customer, gather more facts by finding out about the problem. In all probability you are aware of the problem and are anticipating such calls. If you are then the answer to such calls are probably known to you and if not you could get back to the customer with your investigative results. In such a case DO GET BACK!!! Nothing is more frustrating than the customer having had to call you up again.
Formulating a Solution - Offer solutions and, if appropriate, offer alternatives. Providing alternatives empowers callers. It gives callers a feeling that the decision was not imposed on them but that they were part of the solution. Your solution should be consistent with your customer relations policy. Important criteria while offering a solution is to consider the customer’s expectations; the cost versus benefit of alternative solutions; the probability of your customer seeking redress; the fairness of your decision; and your ability to carry out the solution.
Finally, confirm the solution with the caller. Make sure the caller agrees with what has been decided.
Responding - After you have resolved the complaint with the customer to his satisfaction, write to him and if possible send him a small token bouquet or a gift. It a small way of telling him that though you cannot undo the inconvenience caused to him due to your lapses, you do care. Your letter should be clear, appropriate and specific to the individual’s complaint. Avoid form letters and technical jargon. Explaining your decision can preserve your customer’s goodwill, even if a different result was desired.
Abusers
There is one small group of irate callers that has to be addressed here: the abuser. You may not get abusers very often, but when you do they can disturb you terribly . You may call attention to the abuser’s language by saying, "Sir/ Madam, I can handle your problem, but I am not able to handle the swearing. I request you to stop swearing." In most instances, the caller is taken aback by your retort and being aware of what they are saying will halt the swearing. However, if it does not stop, I suggest you ask the person to stop abusing twice more and if the caller doesn’t, then hang up. Three tries and hang up. No one should have to listen to verbal abuse. This method has worked very well with me and invariably you will find the customer calling you back to apologize for his behaviour and seeking a fresh beginning.
Of course, not everyone will be happy, no matter what you do. These people will not be content; they just like being grumbly. These are testing times when the caller starts pressing the "trigger" or "hot-button" words or phrases, accusing you directly and you are tempted into respond ing by getting defensive or retaliatory . They are the people who want to talk to the person "above you." If that is what it takes to lessen their anger, then do so. By the time they have been transferred to a superior, they usually have become calmer and less demanding. It seems that they just needed to vent their anger at someone: you.
Remember, a positive attitude is the most important asset you can have. And if the customer is shouting at you, don’t take it to you personally, its pure business, you are a part of the organisation that has messed up. So own up.
Finally it is to be realised that you would rather hear from an agitated customer than not hearing from him again at all.

Thursday, December 16, 2010

A Chance Encounter

 This is the memoir of an incident we encountered in July 2005.

The mood was upbeat; we were polishing off our holiday to Bali with some shopping at Singapore’s Mustafa Store (A Mecca for bargain shopping located in the Little India town at Singapore). We had picked up a Home Theatre System we had been eyeing for a while (apart from other knick knacks) and were very happy at the bargain we got. We waited excitedly with our shopping trolley outside the store, to go to the airport. We beckoned passing taxis but since we were amongst the many persons waiting we were competing to get to a stopping cabbie before anyone else did. Our luggage was affecting our agility in this awkward competition. With every passing moment (and every failed attempt to get a taxi!!) we were getting anxious as the time for our return flight was approaching. We then spotted a taxi stand round the corner and promptly landed up there and joined the queue. At the end of the queue with about 6-7 persons ahead of us, it seemed that we were going to have a long wait – not a very comforting fact. However we stayed in the queue brimming with anxiety and worry. The taxi drivers savoring the rush hour moments seemed to be choosy in picking up destinations (Yes, it happens in Singapore too!!). Prabha rushed up (out of turn) to the cabbie every time he showed a slight reluctance in ferrying the passenger at the front of the queue to his preferred destination. “Will you then take us to Changi?” she used to say, hoping to find favour. But it was not to be. And to be fair, we were way behind in the queue to really get away with it. We continued our now seemingly endless wait for a taxi looking into the horizon for the next one.
“You wanted to go the airport, come over and join me” is what I thought I heard. Was he talking to me? Before I could gather myself and figure out “You wanted to go to the airport, I am going there too” said this middle aged Indian looking gentleman in a white T-Shirt readying to get into the taxi, this time pointing to me and clarifying that he was indeed talking to me. It was his turn in the queue and he had probably noticed a harried Prabha mention “Airport, airport” umpteen number of times. However before I could say anything, another person behind me in the queue jumped at the offer and said.. “I will join you”. “Look I have already made them the offer, if they don’t take it you are welcome or alternately, if all of us can fit in, I have no problems” said our man, who by now I noticed had decided to move to the front seat.  We were very glad at this favorable resolution and quickly dumped our boxes in the boot of the taxi before comfortably ensconcing ourselves in the rear seat. The other person walked back to join the queue much to our relief!!
We were so glad that we were on the way to the airport and thanked the gentleman profusely for well ‘being such a gentleman’.
Prabha had got a sandwich and burger packed from the nearby outlet while I was settling the bill at Mustafa’s. This was to be our lunch. We immediately began gorging on our eats blissfully oblivious of the gent in the front seat.  We however made a perfunctory offer to share the sandwich, which he politely turned down saying “Thanks, but I am sure you’ve had a busy day so you must be hungry”.  We got chatting during the course of which I realized that he was on his way from Taipei to Bangalore and had come for a dekko at the latest PDAs during the stopover. He looked tired and weary and as during conversations with any stranger, the mind started putting stereotypes together. We decided that he was probably a middle-level/ senior management professional from a small / medium sized company. On being asked about us we said  “We are coming from Bali and are on our way to Mumbai” we said.  “Oh Wow, how is Bali?”  He was curious.
“I want to go there on my next family holiday,” he said. I looked at Prabha and smiled (which I don’t think he noticed as he was looking ahead), this was not the first time we had heard this. Almost everyone to whom we mentioned our plans for Bali would say that. Some of them meant it, though some of them said so, just so as not to be left out in a true keep up with the Joneses’ style. We didn’t quite know which category our friend belonged to. “What is there to see in Bali? ” he asked. “Well, Bali is a tourist spot whose eternal appeal lies in its discovery. It has various facets to its mystique and it unveils itself layer by layer…” I replied stiffly with an almost a bookish language that tried to fake the élan of a seasoned ‘been there done that’ globe trotting millionaire traveller. But he would have nothing of it. “ No, but what does all this mean, what is good about Bali and is it worth visiting” he said. That did it and before I realized, I was now telling him all I felt about Bali, its cultural glory, its world famous unspoilt beaches, its bluer than blue waters ideal for snorkeling and scuba diving (incidentally, the latter was of most interest to me) and everything I liked about it, place where we stayed, food etc, all this with childlike excitement. Since all of this came out (rather poured) straight from the heart, I didn’t realize that I was talking a lot, until a small nudge from Prabha shook me. She gave me a look that suggested that I have talked too much (the usual women thing you see!!).  I flinched from the shock of that nudge and returned that look to Prabha “There is something in Bali for every kind of tourist” I continued, unscathed by the rude interruption. All this while our friend was very intently listening to my travelogues with his nodding and exclamations suggesting that he was equally involved in the talk (or is that what I thought? - I would never know !!!). While I had said most of the things I thought a traveler to Bali ought to know, I realized that I would be failing in my duty supremely if I didn’t tell him about something that had bothered us. “Sir, vegetarian food is a problem in Bali just in case you are a vegetarian like us” I said feeling relieved. “So what did you do” he wanted to know. I could see Prabha looking at me shockingly, but I ignored her “Simple, we cooked!! Our apartment had a proper kitchenette and we cooked our vegetarian food” That was it – Prabha thumped her forehead and leaned towards the far end of the wide seat of the Toyota Crown taxi. She was obviously upset at me having revealed something that she thought would make us look like aliens  - someone from the African tribes or something. After all Bali with its varied cuisine is known to be a foodie’s delight. And here I was telling him that we cooked. “Oh really” he said and started laughing. I was absolutely non-plussed.. My mind was conjuring up images of Prabha later telling me ‘I told you so’. But what happened thereafter was something that vindicated my frank talk.
“You won’t believe this, but we did the something similar on our trip to Europe” he began and went on to narrate some such interesting anecdotes of his travel and we were all enjoying his no bars conversation. He was a well-traveled gentleman and by now it was clear that he was also a very humble human being. Our conversations started getting interesting and there seemed to be a ‘bluetooth’ connectivity that got established between three of us, the common factor being a love for travel.
Just then I noticed the ‘Welcome to Changi’ signboard. For once we were not relieved that the destination had arrived. Our conversations had just begun and were becoming very absorbing every passing minute. But it was time to move on. “Send me some dope on Bali when you reach home” he reminded me. Meanwhile I handed over to him some printouts of the information about Bali, I had downloaded from the internet and were there in my bag. The terminal arrived and our friend promptly paid off the cabbie. “I would have come to the airport anyways” said he when I offered to split the fare. We thanked him for the ride and the good time that we shared. We exchanged business cards with customary greetings (though I saw his card only cursorily, thinking about my luggage which was still in the taxi boot) and parted ways.
I hadn’t however missed the logo of a famous Indian software house on his card. After unloading my home theatre boxes from the taxi on to the luggage trolley, I looked at the card again and what I saw changed my image of the man. His demeanor - humble behaviour and extremely simple personality void of any flamboyance - concealed a very successful businessman, a very committed professional and a very intellectual soul. Yes - the co-founder of one of the most successful software companies in India has to be all of this and more. I looked around hastily to locate him. He was gone. He had been sitting in the front seat of the taxi and we had been at the back seat so we hadn’t even had a good look at him. I told Prabha about him and his stature while lugging our trolley to the counter and talking about how lucky we were to have met him and at the same time foolish to have been unable to recognize him. We were enjoying recalling and discussing the conversations during the taxi ride. Then I suddenly noticed him. He was standing just outside the terminal building with a colleague (or friend) peacefully smoking a cigarette. Maybe he was planning for his next million-dollar project looking at the smoke. We waved at each other; it was time to bid adieu to Mr S Janakiraman – Co-founder of Mindtree Consulting. Salaam Sir!!!

Monday, December 6, 2010

The Ceremonial Exit




This was the spontaneous outpouring of some of my thoughts when I saw a friend going through a 'not so pleasant' exit from his organisation.

This article was published by Economic Times dt 28th Sept 1998
 
The inevitable happens - your employee leaves you. He leaves you because he wants to, or even maybe sometimes you want him to. This is one of the things a dynamic and fast changing economy brings with it- turbulence in the work environment. When times are good, your employees are wooed for better compensation, better job status and a better job environment and on the contrary in tough times the employees are shown the door by way of VRS or simply due to non-performance/ non-conformance. Sure no employee is indispensable and thus a voluntary / involuntary exit of an employee from your organisation may not be a big deal after all. But the trail he leaves behind could say a lot about the undercurrents within an organisation. It is these undercurrents in the organisation that drive the grapevine circuit and cause the rest of the employees to form an opinion about the goings on in the organisation. And it is prudent on the part of the senior management to have a pulse on these undercurrents. An Exit Interview is one way to keep a tab on these undercurrents and the grapevine mill that runs overtime in these times. An Exit interview is a forum in which a conversation is facilitated with the outgoing employee and he is invited to identify some major/ minor or even apparently non-issues but persistent aggravations which have been difficult during the period of his employment. Thus Exit interview is a very useful tool to obtain feedback on what you are doing good and what you are doing bad that you could do better 

The way an Exit interview is conducted is the single most important factor determining the depth and nature of the elicited information being divulged 

A moderator can make or break the chord of trust between the employee and the interviewer. Effective moderation and listening are the key for a useful and effective Exit Interview. The interview should be conducted by a person at least one (if not two) rungs above the normal reporting level of the outgoing employee in the presence of an H.R person. The general climate of such a discussion should be congenial, which will help the employee get into a receptive mood. Effective listening which involves paying attention to the spoken word (cognitive message) as well the non verbal communication forms the key to understanding the feelings and concerns of the individual at a subconscious level. And it is this information that is the most valuable feedback you can ever get. 

Questions can magically facilitate the conversation. They help in getting more information, establish mutuality, clarify matters and most importantly stimulate thinking. The questions posed to the interviewee should be in the form of short, light and loose-ended remarks that invite a thoughtful and verbose response from the interviewee. Questions like " Tell us one single thing you would do in the organisation, if you were given a magic wand…" or "What is the most interesting part of the job you are leaving behind? …." Or "How could we make life easier for your successor?" normally do the trick and sets off the interviewee into spewing out deep-rooted thoughts of his mind. A very frank and openhearted discussion can be expected at this stage as the occasion is devoid of any stakes, biases and prejudices from either side. Carefully and uninterruptedly listen to what is being said. Remember this interview is primarily a time to listen not to debate. Defensiveness and arguments serve no purpose at this stage and in-fact could hinder the process of information gathering. Cursory remarks like "…. Okay... Tell us more…" and ell us more…" and " So... That explains it…" should keep the interviewee going. 

During the interview always elicit information about 

  • The interesting, frustrating, demanding, constraining and unpleasant aspects of the job 
  • Gaps in rewards and benefits he is now going for - but you didn’t offer. 
  • The work environment and the relationships between co-employees 

Therefore the interviewer should be prepared for the unexpected - bombshells disclosures, accusations, admissions etc. In fact these ingredients often make up a successful Exit Interview. Remember- would you have ever got such information from a current employee? 

The Exit interview is also a perfect opportunity to form an opinion about whether to re-employ the person concerned. It may not be bad idea after all to consider his re- employment, if the roadblocks that caused him to quit are removed some time in the future and also the employee concerned shows willingness. Did someone say that a known devil is better than an unknown one is? 

It is also observed that though most well meaning HR personnel understand the importance and use of an exit interview, they tend to go about it as a mundane ritual rather than as a serious exercise. This is because they suffer from what is called " Know it all syndrome". They think they know what the outgoing employee feels and also why he feels that way. They work on assumptions rather than reasoning, they are victims of selective perception and look forth to corroborate their hypotheses rather than reach out for and elicit some useful, unusual and critical information being sent out by the Interviewee and thus end up making the whole affair nugatory. 

A very likely situation is where the outgoing employee gives and so also seeks feedback about his ways of functioning. If ever you come across such a situation - do oblige. The feedback you offer should be constructive and not vindictive Fortunately for us here in India, the Indian employment scene is not deteriorated to the extent that an employee sues an employer for giving ‘unsatisfactory reasons’ for his termination. (Something that the employers dread abroad and thus shy away from an Exit Interview.) Such an excellent feedback exchange session just shows that you have gained enough trust of the outgoing employee and thus successfully transformed him from a colleague to a friend for life. What better way to bid adieu ?

Sunday, December 5, 2010

A Beginning.

Finally, I have created my blog.

I have been writing things here and there about whatever sets me thinking, weaving it into a story or an article and have been sharing it with friends. In some cases, I also make the extra effort of getting it published in papers to take it to a larger audience.

I'll begin by putting those articles or pieces on the blog which have been written before at the same time I am promising myself to post here as often as I think I have something sensible to share.

Thanks,